This article in Sydney Morning Herald explains it all, some women want conversation along with a shag!
Sophie Fontanel The Art of Sleeping Alone: "No sex is better than bad sex," says Sophie Fontanel, sitting forward on a couch in the historic Hotel Le Meurice, in central Paris. "You would think this is obvious, no?" Her dark eyes wait, smiling. "But the fuss!"
Forget a man who can last all night, or a man who can't last at all. What women want - or at least, what this couture-slim 50-year-old wants - is a bit of tenderness from a soul mate, from a man who is comfortable with silence.
"I don't know where he is, this secret man," says Fontanel in heavily accented English. "When you get older, it is not simple. Most of the men my age are like little boys with beards; they are looking at very young women. So we must learn to be happy by ourselves"
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