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In a perfect world, women would feel free to dress however they want without being stigmatized for it. But know that revealing clothing and certain verbal tics, such as ending statements with an upward inflection in your voice or struggling to accept a compliment, can affect others’ ability to take you seriously.

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But ladies, don't think that you've been failing to take responsibility for the actions of your colleagues because you're some sort of harlot – hey, maybe you're just an idiot!

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Don’t say or do anything you wouldn’t say or do in the presence of your grandmother. If you sense that you could start unconsciously flirting (you’re human, and sometimes it happens), imagine that your grandmother is in the room. If you’d feel embarrassed saying or doing whatever you’re about to say or do in front of Grandma, don’t go there.

Mating advice for men

The male in the workplace is conflicted now days with all the politically correct mating rituals. This article from SMH.COM.Au may help
It's so difficult these days to know whether or not you're flirting with someone. You might think that it might be fairly obvious whether you're sexfully interested in a person, but it transpires that we can't always control those cues that we're sending out. And in these complicated times, when men and women are working together as equals – equals who aren't paid the same or anything – we need to be extra conscious of not firing up the loins of our easily mis-cued colleagues.

Fortunately the ladies have had it all explained to them recently in the US by Jhana, an employee training and education service, via their excellent piece “What if a male colleague gets the wrong idea?” (which they sadly and inexplicably took down – but not before Jezebel took some helpful screenshots. The piece explained to the ladies that sometimes chaps get the wrong idea, which is their responsibility and definitely not just the dudes' problem.

This blog is to warn women to BEWARE

This rant is for women out there BEWARE

I came across the free video on the web that claims to teach men who to seduce women!

This guy explains how to bypass women’s natural resistance to pick up lines and get into your pants

I suppose it is ok if you both are willing but you really should see the video.

What is your excuse

Many men have excuses for bring single!! Here are a few that came up in todays Sydney Morning herald.

“I’m single because all the men in this city are losers,” is one blame-refrain I’ve heard before.
“I’m single because only certain people like the way I look,” is another.
“I’m single because no-one wants to date a single dad.”
 “...because you can’t trust divorcees.”
“...because online dating is a rort.”
“True love isn’t real.”
And so on.
Besides the fact that for every supposed certainty, proof exists to the contrary, simply thinking about these outcomes invokes the power of self-fulfilling prophecy. Viewing all the men in the city as losers, for example, kind of limits your options to well, no-one. Pity the poor bloke who strikes up a conversation with a lady looking at life this way. Chances are he won’t be given a chance.

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/blogs/citykat/single-whose-fault-is-that-really-20130815-2rz1t.html#ixzz2c7684Alh

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Spilling the beans on dud dates does neither party a good turn.

Over 60 and looking to date online?

Spilling the beans on dud dates does neither party a good turn.

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/the-sour-taste-of-kissandtell-books-20130813-2rtyj.html#ixzz2c74OJDt8

Another kiss-and-tell book. One more woman slagging off the men she's met, kissed and shagged during online dating. Blue Mountains resident Carole Lethbridge was a 65-year-old veteran of four marriages when she decided to try her luck at internet dating. Her new book, Online Dating After Sixty, carries the subtitle “One woman's journey of love, lust and losers".

That says it all.
Lethbridge met a bunch of men online including some she admits were pleasant and intelligent but lacked her required "chemistry". Yet she dismisses them all as losers. Not just losers but "tragics, duds and dickheads" to use one of her colourful descriptions. It's quite astonishing how many writers, particularly women, are willing to exploit the vulnerabilities of genuine online daters for the purpose of spinning a good yarn. Yes, the online dating scene does include players and users but most participants are ordinary men and women who find the whole process daunting enough without people sending them up by writing about their foibles.

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/the-sour-taste-of-kissandtell-books-20130813-2rtyj.html#ixzz2c744WXKF

After all she got shagged anyway what more could she want?

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99 page dating manual

This article has all the wrong messages

SMH.com.au http://www.dailylife.com.au/life-and-love/love,-sex-and-relationships/a-99-page-manual-on-how-to-date-this-guy-20130809-2rmav.html
The mere existence of this 99 page document makes it tempting to give an armchair diagnosis of obsessive/compulsive disorder and/or a placement somewhere on the autism spectrum. And there’s nothing obviously malicious in here: at no point in this voluminous screed does he outline what he expects his potential girlfriend – or, as he unfortunately dubs her, “My Woman” (yes, capitalised) – to look like, for example. However, it does make clear that he really doesn’t know how this “courting” thing works.

He goes on to ask for pictures.

I also like getting (from you) the following types of Naughty pics, before we even meet up on the night:
a) All these other pics without your Face showing,
b) A Full frontal pics – naked - in front of perhaps a mirror,
c) Your Boobs (preferably in an aroused state),
d) Legs apart looking up,
e) Your vulvae with Vaginal opening – with your Legs open, Aroused.
f) Inside your Vagina,

g) Your Clitoris – right in. Aroused with Clit hood back as needed.

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Infidelity blogs - the perils of revealing all

Infidelity is as old as humankind, but thanks to the internet, we have a platform

that allows people to share their lives on a global stage.
Infidelity blogging is a part of a bigger confessional blogging scene where sites like Post Secret and Secret Regrets allow us to anonymously purge our sins.
These "true-wife" confessions have become an online sensation as women take to their keyboards to shamelessly reveal their secret shenanigans.
Are these blogs an outlet seeking a cathartic conclusion to their broken relationships or are they harmful to unknowing partners, children and ultimately themselves?

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/infidelity-blogs--the-perils-of-revealing-all-20130725-2qkr4.html#ixzz2bJoH9E8D

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Orgasms are key to a healthy brain

Like anyone needs an excuse, it turns out orgasms are better for your brain than Sudoku or a challenging crossword.
"Mental exercises increase brain activity but only in relatively localised regions," Professor Barry Komisaruk, a neuroscientist from Rutgers University told The Times. "Orgasm activates the whole."
If warding off a bedraggled mind is not enough impetus to kick the crossword and engage in a little carnal ecstasy, orgasms may also be an elixir for youth.
At least, they have been for Komisaruk, 72, who has been studying orgasms since the 60s.

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"I guess the orgasms keep me young," he said. "At orgasm we see a tremendous increase in the blood flow (to the brain). So my belief is it can't be bad. It brings all the nutrients and oxygenation to the brain."

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/crosswords-wont-cut-it-orgasms-are-key-to-a-healthy-brain-20130806-2rd8z.html#ixzz2bEFR3hrJ

Dating after divorce

Dating after divorce: "Regardless of whether you've had an amicable or tumultuous divorce, when you finally come out the other end single, the future can appear daunting.

Many divorcees will ask questions such as how long do I stay single? Should I date someone because my ex is? Do I need to remain single for my kids' sake? Where do I begin finding a new partner?

Just as in marriage, where there is no definitive rule book, the same applies to divorce. There are no steadfast rules and regulations about when and what you should do."

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Men Faking Orgasm

O wow - what a day to celebrate: "I mean, why would anyone fake an orgasm ever? Lying is bad, we know this, and lying about the amount of fun being had in the sack is especially bad because 1. it doesn’t help you get better sex, and 2. it only increases the chances that other people will have bad sex in the future.

Yet we all know that people will continue to pretend they enjoyed some shags more than they actually did. Some people fake it for the sake of good manners, some people do it because they are lazy, and others do it because they actually don’t know any other way."

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O (Orgasm) wow - what a day to celebrate

O wow - what a day to celebrate: "Come one, come all, it’s National Orgasm Day! A day when we pause to consider the meaning of, well, orgasms, and ask vital questions such as:

Would you end a relationship for the sake of an orgasm? How important are they, really?

According to a recent UK study, nearly 40 per cent of Britons thought inability to orgasm with their partner would contribute to a break-up.

I’m not particularly surprised by that figure. Orgasms are lovely. I’d like to think that they’d be a prominent part of anyone’s long-term sexual relationship. Presumably anyone who’s had one, or many in succession as is the want of a deliciously wanton woman, would."

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Muddy good fun

Muddy good fun: "The Boryeong Mud Festival at Daecheon beach in Boryeong, about 190 km southwest of Seoul, South Korea. About 2 to 3 million domestic and international tourists visit the beach during the annual mud festival. The annual festival which runs from July 19-28 aims to encourage the use of mud for cosmetic skin-care and to promote tourism in the region."

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What's in a face: macho men v metrosexuals - The Science Show - ABC Radio National (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)

What's in a face: macho men v metrosexuals - The Science Show - ABC Radio National (Australian Broadcasting Corporation): "Attraction is anything other than trivial.

It's complicated and it's very, very hard to pin down, but when you're close to somebody and that chemistry comes through, you really know about it and it's very, very powerful.

There's such a long list of possible things that can influence attraction, and sometimes we don't even notice them because people who don't have those things don't even come on to our radars. But for women, how tall a man is, how smart he is, how funny he is, how kind he is are all important. Then it boils down to more idiosyncratic things about what he believes and his approach to life, and those are often more compatibility issues than basic attraction issues"

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have any woman you want

The Tao of Badass JV Program: "How to make out with a girl in 40 seconds or less – for real chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,

If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it's magical or out of reach - a special ability or super-power that someone is born with.

Find who is hot to trot

But it's not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I'm going to break down those steps.

The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who's really good with women and someone who's not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who's ready to make out.

I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it's true. If you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go WAY down. 

You must know how to spot that woman who's already in this "make-out ready" state, so you can walk up and be "that guy."

Don't buy into the myth that women don't want this to happen. 

Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this "turbo" make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn't happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one's approaching them.

By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you're able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.

There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session. 

What To Look For

The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions. 

Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called "Eye Accessing Cues." When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain. 

If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look down), she's physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission. 

This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.

Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she's meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission. 

Women who you're going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That's one quality which shows you'll be able to quickly make out with her. 

Another quality is that she's actively looking around to make eye contact. This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically and she's not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It's going to take much longer. 

Again, you're going to have to play a totally different kind of game when you walk up. You can't just walk up and make out with her.

So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she's constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with. 

Other traits are revealed in the way they're moving and how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It's less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available for you to walk up and dominate. That's because she's standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll probably be a lot more resistant.

Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit. 

Another thing is the way she's dressed. If she's dressed in a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isn't the kind of girl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.

This kind of women is looking for attention - not for someone to dominate them. What you want is someone who's in between "I don't care" and "Stare at my tits, bitch!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone who's in between those two extremes.

A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They don't want to over dress or under dress, and don't know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They'll usually come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her, of course).

That's what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed. 

If not, I'd actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.

Next, right after you get that done and you've seen your girl (there are probably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) you're going to walk up and start the scary part.


What To Do


This is where the most powerful kind of frame control comes in. It's very, very important that you understand how to control someone else's frame if you want to come across like you're a pro at this. 

By "frame," I basically mean their "reality." You're controlling what they experience. You have to be able to stay in control of that experience in order to really bring her to the level where she feels comfortable making out with you immediately. 

I'm going to give you a very quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. I'll explain as quick as possible; that way you can go straight out and try it... 

Here's what I would say, word-for-word... Walk up to a girl, when you get up to her and right when she makes eye contact with you, I want you to SLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, "Shhh…" 

Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. And immediately say, "Wait just one moment." 

You can also say, "Stop for one minute." I suggest using a bit of NLP here. Whenever someone hears "stop," "wait," or "don't," they immediately register whatever comes after that.

So if I say, "Don't think of a black cat," what do you do? Immediately, you think of a black cat and whatever version of one you have in your head. 

So if I said, "Don't try to make out with me," or "Don't make out with me right now," girls are going to be consciously hearing, "Don't make out with me," but their subconscious minds will be hearing, "Make out with me right now!"

You're attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out with you to be HER idea. She should be thinking, "I should make out with this guy."

Now, during frame control you'll be using a lot of these subconscious triggers in order to get this to go as fast as possible.Please only use this for good. There are lots of evil ways to use this. 

Don't try to seduce women who don't want to be seduced. Again, that's one of the reasons why it's important that you notice a woman who really does want to be seduced by a man.

So to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and you tell her to "Shhh" for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with "don't" or "wait" or "stop." 

My typical is "Don't worry... right now." That's all I say. And I slow that speech down – "Don't…worry…....... right now."

Then I go right into the next statement, which is, "You and I are going to have a secret. We're going to secretly kiss and no one will know."

And as I'm saying this, I'm leaning in... and you'll be doing the same when you do it. You're leaning in ever... so... slowly. At the same time, you're looking from her eyes down to her lips and back up to her eyes again. 

This is called "Triangulating." Count to three looking at her eyes, then look down to her lips and count to two, look back up and count to three, look down and count to two... etc. Do that about three or four times as you're talking.

This can be a lot to remember, so you may want to practice it a little bit. I wouldn't expect you're going to get it perfect the first time.

So again, you say, "We're going to have a secret. We're going to kiss and no one is going to know." From here on out, you're really just filling up space with words as you're leaning in so you're still controlling the interaction.

So you're going to very, very slowly, take your right or left hand – whichever one is more accessible – and reach around her back. You won't pull her in toward you or anything yet, just touch her very lightly.


Signs That It's Working


Is she looking at your lips? If she's looking at your lips, you have a green light to go forward. If she's looking at your eyes, you may want to wait a second, or turn around and turn back again and try it again.

This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you turn around and turn back again, most people consider this to be a fresh start in a conversation. It's a strange loop-hole in psychology.

For some reason, that's how we are as humans. When someone turns away then turns back, we give them another chance moving forward. So if you're getting some resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue. If she gives you resistance again, you probably should back off and find another woman.

If she's looking at your lips and seems to be very comfortable and excited, then proceed. You'll move in very closely and speak almost directly into her ear.


!Important!


In a loud environment like a bar, you'll want to speak louder, but don't raise your voice. Make your voice very low so that you have to be very, very close to her ear for her to hear.

Then you're going to keep talking... What I usually say is, "No one is going to see this. It's just going to be our little secret. I promise I won't tell anybody only if you promise that you won't tell anybody either."

As I'm saying this into her ear, I make sure that she's feeling my breath on her neck. So I'm sort of breathing out a little bit more than normal as I'm speaking so she can feel that hot air on her neck.

This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response from women when you do this. 

As you're speaking really close to her ear, you'll, very slowly, press your cheek against hers as you're talking. Then you'll move you head over so that your mouth is closer to hers, and then... you'll start kissing her.

And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft peck... then go straight into making out. It may not seem like it in this description, but 40 seconds is a long time. This process can happen in a lot less than 40 seconds - I've done it in less time, and I've seen other guys do it, too.


Practice It


What I want you to do is practice this approach. Maybe go for a minute or two at first, and then get to where you can do this in about 40 (or even 30) seconds.

You won't use this tactic all the time. But when the opportunity is right, it's really good to have this in your seduction arsenal. You want to make sure that you have the right kind of tools for the job, so to speak.

Whenever you see a girl who's in that state and ready to be seduced, if you beat around the bush, engage in small talk or generally waste time, she'll be turned off and you've lost a golden seduction opportunity. 

Instead, when you spot this, you want to be able to see her, know that that's what she wants, go in, and give it to her immediately. This is the major difference between guys who are rock stars at walking up and seducing a woman... and guys who wish that they were great at quickly seducing a woman.

There are a lot of other success factors as well. There are techniques on how to speak with the right tonality... how to touch her that allows her to feel comfortable and doesn't turn off any of her weird alert switches... specific NLP triggers that you can use to connect and make sure she's totally in your zone.ban

What's taken me from a normal dude to a well-respected dating coach, is knowing a lot of short-cuts like this and knowing when to bring them out. And these short-cuts can also improve your game with women.

Remember these characteristics in women who want to be seduced, and remember – it is possible to make out with a woman in 40 seconds or less."

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Illegal Seduction Technique? - this video is not safe for work 


Holy crap... I just saw a video that's absolutely HILARIOUS.

Josh Pellicer just finished shooting a video 
that you'll probably notice is a bit... "unconventional."

But that's a GOOD thing.

New, powerful lessons often look a 
little weird at first...

And this one is no different!

That's because he's revealing a few Jedi-style 
techniques that are going to give you an edge 
over all the other guys out there.

chemistry of attraction, pheromone party, 

I'll explain that a bit more in a second...

Or you can just start watching now:


Illegal Seduction Technique? - this video is not safe for work

Within the first 5 seconds, I guarantee 
you'll be thinking "WTF???"

But then...

He'll peel back the wrapping paper and go into some 
pretty advanced material.

He's "opened the vaults" on this one...

Lots of "next level" stuff.

One concept he touches on will re-frame the entire 
way you interact with women.

It clears up a mystery that (some) men have been 
struggling with for thousands of years...

While other men figured it out and kept to themselves 
(because it means they basically get ALL the women).

Things will take a HUGE up-turn for you when you start using 
this to get women to subconsciously want to approach you.

See for yourself what I mean:

[Video] What The Media Is HIDING About What Women Really Want

Wherever your "game" is now...

We're about to throw it into overdrive 
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PS He'll be keeping this video up until midnight.

No time like the present to learn something 
that will change how you see yourself and women 
forever...

After that, your carriage will turn back into a pumpkin. 

Errr, I mean...the video will disappear.

(if you're at work or you can't privately watch a video 
that teaches you uncensored techniques RIGHT NOW...
then wait to click on this link until you have some privacy)

Here's that link again:

[Video] A simple "hack" to attract WAY more women...

Agnieszka Radwanska Dropped by Church Group over Nude Photo

Agnieszka Radwanska Dropped by Church Group over Nude Photo: "World tennis No.4 Agnieszka Radwanska has been dropped by a Catholic youth movement in her native Poland for posing nude in the "Body Issue" of ESPN Magazine.

Radwanska, 24, who makes no secret of her strong Catholic faith, is photographed in profile without a stitch, sitting in a lawn chair by a pool filled with tennis balls.

If she meets a man who she can truly love and establish a happy family and raise Catholic children, then she would probably have to hide these pictures from relatives." chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
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