I’ve been without my lover for days and it hurts. I actually feel an ache because he is gone. The bed is empty. The house is larger. My hours feel incomplete. He is on the other side of the world, and he won’t be back for moons to come.
Will our relationship be better or worse for this trial called separation?
Psychotherapist Esther Perel argues good and committed sexual relationships draw on two conflicting needs: our need for security – predictability, reliability, safety - and our need for surprise – the unknown, unexpected and astonishing"
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