Todays advanced societies are based around teaching and
training
We are placed in a learning environment from a very early
age. As young as 6 weeks. As we travel through life we are taught to read and
write, about sport, about, maths and humanities. Before we even leave high
school we tutored, coached and whatever in how to pass exams and many life
skills.
At the tertiary level we specialise and are provided with
the skills to be a useful member of society.
In all of this education we are not given any training in
the basic life skill of how to have meet and have a successful relationship
with the opposite sex.
We are on our own, in the pursuit of a mate. We learn from
gossip with mates, or advice from the glossies. The Glossies are about selling
product, not giving useful advice, full of articles about what to ware and what
makeup etc.
Generally speaking we have mastered the skill of social
intercourse. When it comes taking the relationship further we choke up. We all
know the feeling, ask a girl directions ok, ask her out we, go red with
embarrassment. All so embarrassing often referred to as lacking self-esteem. That
is a false diagnosis. It happens no matter what your self-esteem. No matter if
you are of the street or a master of your chosen occupation.
To combat this we rehearse endless corny pick-up lines, but
nothing seems to help.
All the training and education seems to have overlooked this
basic life skill. We have been educated and trained by teachers, coaches,
lectures and professors to be specialists in every avenue of life of life
except relieving our un-resolved sexual tension. We have not been trained in
the triggers of intermit social interaction. It is a recognized fact that most
decisions are made in the first forty five seconds. If you choke up you have
little chance of winning the girl or man of your dreams.
Now we shall look at some of the basics in being comfortable
around the person of your dreams. These points apply equally to both sexes as
basically everyone has the same needs and wants. They just come at it from a
different angle.
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Get out from in front of the computer Neaten yourself up,
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