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If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over - she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with her. Period. You will join the piles of men she's had to reject because they weren't confident enough.
The GOOD news is, that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time.
Most really hot girls' tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate.
If you don't know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women.
These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests. First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.
A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like they want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?
Fortunately, that is not the case. When women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them. It is their way of filtering out a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest. It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can't just look at a guy an say "he's good looking, therefore he's attractive." They need much more because they are approached by so many different types of guys. A really attractive girl will get hit on 10-15 times A DAY.
That's 3,650 times a year (conservatively) that an attractive woman is hit on. She will start to see patterns in the ways guys behave if they are actually confident or not, and that has nothing to do with looks.
The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they're going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why you want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you're used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you're used to being with beautiful women.
This is a very crucial concept. If you are used to being with beautiful women, you will not bend over backwards for a beautiful woman just because she wants something. Instead, you will respond in a way that sort of puts the compliance back on her.
Beautiful women are guaranteed to give you compliance tests and if you fail the compliance tests, you are guaranteed not to attract them. So it's very crucial that you learn this.
How do you recognize compliance tests? Basically, look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow.
One very classic compliance test is "buy me a drink."
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Women go for throat here when you're in the bar because they don't have a whole lot of time to figure out who is attracted and who is confident, who's not. How you respond to "buy me a drink" is very crucial when you're in a bar.
There are other small things like "why don't you wait here while I go to the bathroom." or "give me a kiss on the cheek" or even "will you take a picture for us?"
Anything that seems kind of harmless is typically a compliance test especially if it's from a really beautiful woman and you don't want to deny the compliance test, what you want to do is take control over it and add your own terms.
For example, if someone says, "Take our pictures." Then you will say, "okay, I will but I want you to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it." So if they refused to do this, and you go, "Alright, well find some other guy."
You will actually find some other guy to take the camera and say, "Hey man, can you take their picture?" And you just have them take your picture.
But usually they will say okay fine, you take the picture and you go "okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look." Then take their picture. "Okay now, make a silly face", take a picture. And continue to make them do different pictures as long as you can think of them.
Essentially what you're doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is crucial. This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that you don't know and it will create a massive amount of intrigue and a massive amount of attraction that will be built.
So from now on, know and recognize when women is giving you a compliance test. Don't stop and don't reject the compliance test. Add your own terms.
When you start doing this, you are going to see the truly beautiful women in the bar start to treat you in a completely different way. You can actually watch other guys approach, get shot down and see it ruin their nights as you can easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a rockstar, making her more and more attracted to you since you're the kind of guy who won't just do exactly what she wants.
This is one of the "Sexual Triggers" that drive beautiful women wild. The rest of them are revealed in this presentation:
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Wednesday, 31 July 2013
Saturday, 27 July 2013
Are You Set Up For A Shag Tonight
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Wednesday, 24 July 2013
Muddy good fun
Muddy good fun: "The Boryeong Mud Festival at Daecheon beach in Boryeong, about 190 km southwest of Seoul, South Korea. About 2 to 3 million domestic and international tourists visit the beach during the annual mud festival. The annual festival which runs from July 19-28 aims to encourage the use of mud for cosmetic skin-care and to promote tourism in the region."
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What's in a face: macho men v metrosexuals - The Science Show - ABC Radio National (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)
What's in a face: macho men v metrosexuals - The Science Show - ABC Radio National (Australian Broadcasting Corporation): "Attraction is anything other than trivial.
It's complicated and it's very, very hard to pin down, but when you're close to somebody and that chemistry comes through, you really know about it and it's very, very powerful.
There's such a long list of possible things that can influence attraction, and sometimes we don't even notice them because people who don't have those things don't even come on to our radars. But for women, how tall a man is, how smart he is, how funny he is, how kind he is are all important. Then it boils down to more idiosyncratic things about what he believes and his approach to life, and those are often more compatibility issues than basic attraction issues"
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It's complicated and it's very, very hard to pin down, but when you're close to somebody and that chemistry comes through, you really know about it and it's very, very powerful.
There's such a long list of possible things that can influence attraction, and sometimes we don't even notice them because people who don't have those things don't even come on to our radars. But for women, how tall a man is, how smart he is, how funny he is, how kind he is are all important. Then it boils down to more idiosyncratic things about what he believes and his approach to life, and those are often more compatibility issues than basic attraction issues"
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Tuesday, 23 July 2013
The #1 Trick to Build Instant Attraction
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Just how important is this?
It’s so important that I will personally be there - since
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Let’s master it together, starting with what Josh shares on
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P.S. - When I said this event would fill up, I meant it.
This is not some scarcity ploy used by marketers... no,
it's just based on the fact that Josh's last 12 events
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Just CLICK HERE and register NOW while there's still time.
Just how important is this?
It’s so important that I will personally be there - since
there are few things more crucial to your success than this
one simple skill.
Let’s master it together, starting with what Josh shares on
this webinar.
I’ll see you there.
Mac
P.S. - When I said this event would fill up, I meant it.
This is not some scarcity ploy used by marketers... no,
it's just based on the fact that Josh's last 12 events
have filled up fast, usually in under 48 hours, and I
don't want you to miss this.
Just CLICK HERE and register NOW while there's still time.
Monday, 22 July 2013
The Tao of Badass JV Program
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The Tao of Badass JV Program: "How to make out with a girl in 40 seconds or less – for real chemistry
of attraction, pheromone party,If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it's magical or out of reach - a special ability or super-power that someone is born with.
But it's not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I'm going to break down those steps.
The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who's really good with women and someone who's not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who's ready to make out.
I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it's true. If you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go WAY down.
You must know how to spot that woman who's already in this "make-out ready" state, so you can walk up and be "that guy."
Don't buy into the myth that women don't want this to happen.
Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this "turbo" make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn't happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one's approaching them.
By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you're able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.
There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session.
What To Look For

The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.
Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called "Eye Accessing Cues." When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.
If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look down), she's physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission.
This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.
Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she's meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission.
Women who you're going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That's one quality which shows you'll be able to quickly make out with her.
Another quality is that she's actively looking around to make eye contact. This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically and she's not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It's going to take much longer.
Again, you're going to have to play a totally different kind of game when you walk up. You can't just walk up and make out with her.
So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she's constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.
Other traits are revealed in the way they're moving and how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It's less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available for you to walk up and dominate. That's because she's standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll probably be a lot more resistant.
Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit.
Another thing is the way she's dressed. If she's dressed in a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isn't the kind of girl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.
This kind of women is looking for attention - not for someone to dominate them. What you want is someone who's in between "I don't care" and "Stare at my tits, bitch!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone who's in between those two extremes.
A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They don't want to over dress or under dress, and don't know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They'll usually come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her, of course).
That's what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed.
If not, I'd actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.
Next, right after you get that done and you've seen your girl (there are probably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) you're going to walk up and start the scary part.
What To Do
This is where the most powerful kind of frame control comes in. It's very, very important that you understand how to control someone else's frame if you want to come across like you're a pro at this.
By "frame," I basically mean their "reality." You're controlling what they experience. You have to be able to stay in control of that experience in order to really bring her to the level where she feels comfortable making out with you immediately.
I'm going to give you a very quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. I'll explain as quick as possible; that way you can go straight out and try it...
Here's what I would say, word-for-word... Walk up to a girl, when you get up to her and right when she makes eye contact with you, I want you to SLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, "Shhh…"
Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. And immediately say, "Wait just one moment."
You can also say, "Stop for one minute." I suggest using a bit of NLP here. Whenever someone hears "stop," "wait," or "don't," they immediately register whatever comes after that.
So if I say, "Don't think of a black cat," what do you do? Immediately, you think of a black cat and whatever version of one you have in your head.
So if I said, "Don't try to make out with me," or "Don't make out with me right now," girls are going to be consciously hearing, "Don't make out with me," but their subconscious minds will be hearing, "Make out with me right now!"
You're attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out with you to be HER idea. She should be thinking, "I should make out with this guy."
Now, during frame control you'll be using a lot of these subconscious triggers in order to get this to go as fast as possible.Please only use this for good. There are lots of evil ways to use this.
Don't try to seduce women who don't want to be seduced. Again, that's one of the reasons why it's important that you notice a woman who really does want to be seduced by a man.
So to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and you tell her to "Shhh" for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with "don't" or "wait" or "stop."
My typical is "Don't worry... right now." That's all I say. And I slow that speech down – "Don't…worry…....... right now."
Then I go right into the next statement, which is, "You and I are going to have a secret. We're going to secretly kiss and no one will know."
And as I'm saying this, I'm leaning in... and you'll be doing the same when you do it. You're leaning in ever... so... slowly. At the same time, you're looking from her eyes down to her lips and back up to her eyes again.
This is called "Triangulating." Count to three looking at her eyes, then look down to her lips and count to two, look back up and count to three, look down and count to two... etc. Do that about three or four times as you're talking.
This can be a lot to remember, so you may want to practice it a little bit. I wouldn't expect you're going to get it perfect the first time.
So again, you say, "We're going to have a secret. We're going to kiss and no one is going to know." From here on out, you're really just filling up space with words as you're leaning in so you're still controlling the interaction.
So you're going to very, very slowly, take your right or left hand – whichever one is more accessible – and reach around her back. You won't pull her in toward you or anything yet, just touch her very lightly.
Signs That It's Working
Is she looking at your lips? If she's looking at your lips, you have a green light to go forward. If she's looking at your eyes, you may want to wait a second, or turn around and turn back again and try it again.
This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you turn around and turn back again, most people consider this to be a fresh start in a conversation. It's a strange loop-hole in psychology.
For some reason, that's how we are as humans. When someone turns away then turns back, we give them another chance moving forward. So if you're getting some resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue. If she gives you resistance again, you probably should back off and find another woman.
If she's looking at your lips and seems to be very comfortable and excited, then proceed. You'll move in very closely and speak almost directly into her ear.
!Important!
In a loud environment like a bar, you'll want to speak louder, but don't raise your voice. Make your voice very low so that you have to be very, very close to her ear for her to hear.
Then you're going to keep talking... What I usually say is, "No one is going to see this. It's just going to be our little secret. I promise I won't tell anybody only if you promise that you won't tell anybody either."
As I'm saying this into her ear, I make sure that she's feeling my breath on her neck. So I'm sort of breathing out a little bit more than normal as I'm speaking so she can feel that hot air on her neck.
This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response from women when you do this.
As you're speaking really close to her ear, you'll, very slowly, press your cheek against hers as you're talking. Then you'll move you head over so that your mouth is closer to hers, and then... you'll start kissing her.
And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft peck... then go straight into making out. It may not seem like it in this description, but 40 seconds is a long time. This process can happen in a lot less than 40 seconds - I've done it in less time, and I've seen other guys do it, too.
Practice It
What I want you to do is practice this approach. Maybe go for a minute or two at first, and then get to where you can do this in about 40 (or even 30) seconds.
You won't use this tactic all the time. But when the opportunity is right, it's really good to have this in your seduction arsenal. You want to make sure that you have the right kind of tools for the job, so to speak.
Whenever you see a girl who's in that state and ready to be seduced, if you beat around the bush, engage in small talk or generally waste time, she'll be turned off and you've lost a golden seduction opportunity.
Instead, when you spot this, you want to be able to see her, know that that's what she wants, go in, and give it to her immediately. This is the major difference between guys who are rock stars at walking up and seducing a woman... and guys who wish that they were great at quickly seducing a woman.
There are a lot of other success factors as well. There are techniques on how to speak with the right tonality... how to touch her that allows her to feel comfortable and doesn't turn off any of her weird alert switches... specific NLP triggers that you can use to connect and make sure she's totally in your zone.

What's taken me from a normal dude to a well-respected dating coach, is knowing a lot of short-cuts like this and knowing when to bring them out. And these short-cuts can also improve your game with women.
Remember these characteristics in women who want to be seduced, and remember – it is possible to make out with a woman in 40 seconds or less."
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Illegal Seduction Technique? - this video is not safe for work
Holy crap... I just saw a video that's absolutely HILARIOUS.
Josh Pellicer just finished shooting a video
that you'll probably notice is a bit... "unconventional."
But that's a GOOD thing.
New, powerful lessons often look a
little weird at first...
And this one is no different!
That's because he's revealing a few Jedi-style
techniques that are going to give you an edge
over all the other guys out there.
chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
I'll explain that a bit more in a second...
Or you can just start watching now:
Illegal Seduction Technique? - this video is not safe for work
Within the first 5 seconds, I guarantee
you'll be thinking "WTF???"
But then...
He'll peel back the wrapping paper and go into some
pretty advanced material.
He's "opened the vaults" on this one...
Lots of "next level" stuff.
One concept he touches on will re-frame the entire
way you interact with women.
It clears up a mystery that (some) men have been
struggling with for thousands of years...
While other men figured it out and kept to themselves
(because it means they basically get ALL the women).
Things will take a HUGE up-turn for you when you start using
this to get women to subconsciously want to approach you.
See for yourself what I mean:
[Video] What The Media Is HIDING About What Women Really Want
Wherever your "game" is now...
We're about to throw it into overdrive
and slam on the gas!
Your friend,
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PS He'll be keeping this video up until midnight.
No time like the present to learn something
that will change how you see yourself and women
forever...
After that, your carriage will turn back into a pumpkin.
Errr, I mean...the video will disappear.
(if you're at work or you can't privately watch a video
that teaches you uncensored techniques RIGHT NOW...
then wait to click on this link until you have some privacy)
Here's that link again:
[Video] A simple "hack" to attract WAY more women...
Holy crap... I just saw a video that's absolutely HILARIOUS.
Josh Pellicer just finished shooting a video
that you'll probably notice is a bit... "unconventional."
But that's a GOOD thing.
New, powerful lessons often look a
little weird at first...
And this one is no different!
That's because he's revealing a few Jedi-style
techniques that are going to give you an edge
over all the other guys out there.
chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
I'll explain that a bit more in a second...
Or you can just start watching now:
Illegal Seduction Technique? - this video is not safe for work
Within the first 5 seconds, I guarantee
you'll be thinking "WTF???"
But then...
He'll peel back the wrapping paper and go into some
pretty advanced material.
He's "opened the vaults" on this one...
Lots of "next level" stuff.
One concept he touches on will re-frame the entire
way you interact with women.
It clears up a mystery that (some) men have been
struggling with for thousands of years...
While other men figured it out and kept to themselves
(because it means they basically get ALL the women).
Things will take a HUGE up-turn for you when you start using
this to get women to subconsciously want to approach you.
See for yourself what I mean:
[Video] What The Media Is HIDING About What Women Really Want
Wherever your "game" is now...
We're about to throw it into overdrive
and slam on the gas!
Your friend,
YOUR NAME
PS He'll be keeping this video up until midnight.
No time like the present to learn something
that will change how you see yourself and women
forever...
After that, your carriage will turn back into a pumpkin.
Errr, I mean...the video will disappear.
(if you're at work or you can't privately watch a video
that teaches you uncensored techniques RIGHT NOW...
then wait to click on this link until you have some privacy)
Here's that link again:
[Video] A simple "hack" to attract WAY more women...
Sunday, 21 July 2013
Mate choice: opposites don't attract › News in Science (ABC Science)
Mate choice: opposites don't attract › News in Science (ABC Science): "When it comes to finding the right partner in life, the old adage that 'opposites attract' is wrong, according to a new U.S. study.
In Western society at least, young adults prefer someone who is most like themselves, report two Cornell University researchers in this week's issue of Proceedings of the National Academy of Science." chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
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In Western society at least, young adults prefer someone who is most like themselves, report two Cornell University researchers in this week's issue of Proceedings of the National Academy of Science." chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
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Monday, 15 July 2013
Agnieszka Radwanska Dropped by Church Group over Nude Photo
Agnieszka Radwanska Dropped by Church Group over Nude Photo: "World tennis No.4 Agnieszka Radwanska has been dropped by a Catholic youth movement in her native Poland for posing nude in the "Body Issue" of ESPN Magazine.
Radwanska, 24, who makes no secret of her strong Catholic faith, is photographed in profile without a stitch, sitting in a lawn chair by a pool filled with tennis balls.
If she meets a man who she can truly love and establish a happy family and raise Catholic children, then she would probably have to hide these pictures from relatives." chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
Go to http://dating-advice-for-men.info
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Radwanska, 24, who makes no secret of her strong Catholic faith, is photographed in profile without a stitch, sitting in a lawn chair by a pool filled with tennis balls.
If she meets a man who she can truly love and establish a happy family and raise Catholic children, then she would probably have to hide these pictures from relatives." chemistry of attraction, pheromone party,
Go to http://dating-advice-for-men.info
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Dating Advice For Men Relationship Advice
Dating Advice For Men Relationship Advice: "Q: I notice you say when socializing to mix with women and not to get in a group of men why is that?
A: Let us look at this as you are the product and you are selling yourself on eBay. If you put yourself in the wrong category (mixing with men) or you put a high starting price you do not get any bids. With the correct category a low starting price you get early bidding. When someone sees a bid others become competitive. They will feel if someone else sees value they come in with confidence. Folks that is what happens in with social interaction. Place yourself with women make your intentions obvious and engage. This free video is about creating a market for your favours. Think about it, do you want to shag tonight?"
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A: Let us look at this as you are the product and you are selling yourself on eBay. If you put yourself in the wrong category (mixing with men) or you put a high starting price you do not get any bids. With the correct category a low starting price you get early bidding. When someone sees a bid others become competitive. They will feel if someone else sees value they come in with confidence. Folks that is what happens in with social interaction. Place yourself with women make your intentions obvious and engage. This free video is about creating a market for your favours. Think about it, do you want to shag tonight?"
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Sunday, 14 July 2013
How To Have The Woman Of Your Dreams Seduction Advice
How To Have The Woman Of Your Dreams Seduction Advice: "Throughout modern life we are trained to specialize in our own particular field of endeavour. From being a casual labourer to a brain surgeon we can spend years being trained with the latest in scientific research in how to perform the task in hand.
However when it comes to finding a partner there is no formal training for dating advice. We are left to trial and error and misguided articles in magazines. This generally results in failure and disappointment."
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However when it comes to finding a partner there is no formal training for dating advice. We are left to trial and error and misguided articles in magazines. This generally results in failure and disappointment."
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Saturday, 13 July 2013
Q:How Should I Behave in a Nixed Social Gathering
A: Let us look at
this as you are the product and you are selling yourself on eBay. If you put yourself
in the wrong category (mixing with men) or you put a high starting price you do
not get any bids. With the correct category a low starting price you get early
bidding. When someone sees a bid others become competitive. They will feel if
someone else sees value they come in with confidence. Folks that is what
happens in with social interaction. Place yourself among women make your
intentions obvious and engage. This free video is about creating a market for your favors. Think about it do you want to shag tonight?
how to socialize to get laidThursday, 11 July 2013
Wednesday, 10 July 2013
Self Comparison
Self-Compassion |"It is OK to be average, so we're setting up an un-winnable game where you have to be better than others in order to feel good about yourself"
Tuesday, 9 July 2013
Funny or Die | Drunk History | Comedy Central | A necessary evil?
Funny or Die | Drunk History | Comedy Central | A necessary evil?: "Is getting drunk or naked TV's necessary evil?"
Might television, struggling for viewers, be about to flood us with the adjectives of sin and scandal? The progression we've already seen would seem to suggest as much.
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/tv-and-radio/is-getting-drunk-or-naked-tvs-necessary-evil-20130709-2pndg.html#ixzz2YWz7b5AI
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Might television, struggling for viewers, be about to flood us with the adjectives of sin and scandal? The progression we've already seen would seem to suggest as much.
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/tv-and-radio/is-getting-drunk-or-naked-tvs-necessary-evil-20130709-2pndg.html#ixzz2YWz7b5AI
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Friday, 5 July 2013
Virginsmus?
This is a sexual problem that's rarely talked about and yet can cause great distress to sufferers and their partners. Luckily full recovery is possible.
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/lets-talk-about-vaginismus-20130702-2p8nr.html#ixzz2YD0IykAy
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/lets-talk-about-vaginismus-20130702-2p8nr.html#ixzz2YD0IykAy
Imagine it's your wedding night. You're a virgin and looking forward to having sex with your husband for the first time... but, despite best intentions, it doesn't happen.
The reason is a condition called vaginismus, a sexual problem that's rarely talked about.
"It is quite unbelievable that in Australia, many GPs and sometimes even gynaecologists do not know about the condition."
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/lets-talk-about-vaginismus-20130702-2p8nr.html#ixzz2YD1TJVKb
Is Flirting Cheating?
Flirting is something we do when we want to have sex with someone else.
True or false?
Depending on your response, you might think it possible to flirt with others and remain faithful to your one and only. Or you might think the whole ‘one and only’ notion is somewhat defeated by flirtations with other ones.
Regardless, it’s an interesting question. And one we often don’t consider until we are hard-up against a problem brought to bear by ignorance of the issue.
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Which is why it’s probably worth nipping potential troubles in the proverbial bud by having a conversation with your partner in which you discuss whether it’s ok, or not, to flirt with other people.
And, like so many discussions, it’s one that really needs to begin with a definition. A definition that clearly outlines what does and does not constitute flirtatious behaviour, so clearly setting the boundaries around what should and should not be done, and what is or is not ok. Anyone who’s tried to mount this conversation will know how hard it can be. Flirting is such a subjective idea.
For example, how would you answer this preliminary question: What is flirting?
Flirting is something that occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It’s a building block, so to speak. Most people would agree that couples come together usually because they’ve flirted their way there. They met, they flirted, they probably fooled around, and then they decided to forgo all others in favour of committed together-foreverness.
However people might also agree that flirting doesn’t always need to lead to that. Flirting can be ‘harmless’. Flirting can be ‘innocent’.
Such flirting might occur between random strangers on a bus. It might be between a bank manager and loan applicant. This is the kind of flirting you do when you want something, and that something isn’t sex. It’s flattery, it’s suggestion, it’s charm and charisma. This might be the kind of flirting Dr Catherine Hakim from the London School of Economics was talking about in her book Honey Money in which she encouraged women tap into their “erotic capital”.
Would such flirting be detrimental to your relationship? Does such behaviour undermine the personal, private, romantic love you have for your partner? Could it be interpreted as infidelity?
There’s also the kind of flirting that may be done unconsciously. I was always accused of flirting with men when I twirled my hair around my finger. Not true – I’d say – I’m just enjoying the sensation of clean, silky hair twisting around my fingers. Or I’m stressed, or thinking. Friends will know how curly my head gets when I’ve been mulling.
Yet behavioural psychologists might look at your body language and say, “flirt”, even if you’re not meaning to be. Things like where your feet are placed, or whether you’re fidgeting, or if you’re talking quickly may all be interpreted as examples of flirtatious behaviour. Are they? Are the primal urges of our subconscious really so damn obvious and unavoidable?
I don’t think so. I think that the key definitional aspect here is intent. It’s the why, not so much the what. I think that flirting is a problem for a relationship if someone is doing it to actually get laid, presuming that your relationship is sexually monogamous. Similarly, I think flirting is a problem if you’re doing it to feel validated. This is a problem in the same way flirting-for-sex is; you should be getting sex, and validation, within your relationship. Not beyond it. You should be with someone you find fulfilling. You shouldn’t feel the need to flirt.
Not everyone will agree with me. Some people love watching their lover flirt with someone else, so long as they’re sure where the love lies at the end of the day. Other people argue flirting is necessary to professional or personal development. As social creatures, we’re geared towards flirtation – we want to be loved by everyone, and making everyone feel we love them is a good first step towards satisfying this urge.
Ultimately, whether flirting is or is not a problem for a couple comes down to the definition a couple has cultivated together. Flirting is not a sign of unfaithfulness, ipso facto. It’s what’s done with it, and why, that counts.
Don’t you agree?
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/blogs/citykat/is-flirting-outside-your-relationship-cheating-20130703-2pbjf.html#ixzz2YCxdyZIo
Thursday, 4 July 2013
Should I Ware a Condom on my First Date With A New Partner?
Yes, to protect yourself and your new love..
Go to dating-advice-for-men.info and watch video.
Go to dating-advice-for-men.info and watch video.
Wednesday, 3 July 2013
How Do I Meet the Woman of My Dreams?
This question came from a visitor to website on the FAQ page.
It is impossible to answer in specific terms?
Go to website www.dating-advice-for-mem.info/
It is impossible to answer in specific terms?
Go to website www.dating-advice-for-mem.info/
Tuesday, 2 July 2013
Website Update
I have added a FAQ page to website http;//dating-advice-for-men.info
I will be answering legitimate questions on this page
my first question has been:
Q: "What do I do if I get her home and we seem to be going for it and she says NO?"
go to http://dating-advice-for-men.info/faq.html for answer
I will be answering legitimate questions on this page
my first question has been:
Q: "What do I do if I get her home and we seem to be going for it and she says NO?"
go to http://dating-advice-for-men.info/faq.html for answer
Monday, 1 July 2013
How to find an elite husband | China's 'leftover' women
How to find an elite husband | China's 'leftover' women: "Of course, stigma against unmarried career women of a certain age exists everywhere. And fighting entrenched gender norms – such as the idea women should "marry up" – has been a long and slow process that even in highly industrialised societies remains incomplete. But for Hong Fincher what's unique about China is the state monopoly on media and information (albeit being slowly eroded by the digital revolution). "The message is: 'Whoa! These women are too successful! We've got to rein them in so that they'll focus on their primary duty as women, which is to get married and have a child'," says Hong Fincher. It's a message that's filtered down through pop culture and lodged itself inside the hearts and minds of at least some Chinese women and their parents."
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How to find an elite husband | China's 'leftover' women
How to find an elite husband | China's 'leftover' women: "But as her tale goes – repeated several times that day, on the company website, and in her book – a bout of cancer and subsequent recovery gave Liang a new lease on life. By employing a unique blend of "personal brand management, advanced marketing theories and precision filtering system", within nine months she was happily married to a handsome, American manager of a multinational company.
Liang now runs a life-coaching business whose primary client base is over-27, single women, hoping to emulate her success in the marriage game"
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Liang now runs a life-coaching business whose primary client base is over-27, single women, hoping to emulate her success in the marriage game"
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